Monday, December 27, 2010

Damien's First Trip to the ER

Well, Damien succumbed to his first bout of illness shortly after Christmas. His symptoms started with a few coughing spells where he had trouble breathing and increased irritability. This of course sent Mommy into a first rate panic who demanded that we seek medical attention for Damien right away due to his age (2 1/2 months). Damien's French grandmother Colette didn't delay and found a drop in doctor that was still open (it was about 10pm). We rushed over there, and after examining Damien the doctor thought the coughing was due to his reflux and didn't find any signs of respiratory illness. We went back to Grandma's house feeling quite relieved and a little shaken (at least Momma was).

Once we got there, however, we were able to reach Damien's pediatrician's office back home. That doctor listened to his cough via skype and because of the whooping cough epidemic in California (that has killed a number of little babies) and the incubation period being right on from when we left California (on a plane full of coughing people) he wanted us to take Damien to the ER right away to get looked at and tested for whooping cough. CAN YOU SAY PANIC! Man, Momma was a hysterical mess. Thankfully Papa and Grandma Colette were calm and held it together. So, off to the Women and Children's Hospital in Lyon we went at about midnight. After a brief wait in a special under 3 months waiting room (to keep these small things away from older sick children) we saw another doctor who did a work up on Damien. He also didn't think that Damien had any signs of respiratory illness and didn't think that he had whooping cough either. He wasn't sure what exactly was wrong (at this point Damien didn't have any signs of congestion, just the mostly dry cough), but said he was going to be just fine. Momma was highly skeptical and a nervous wreck. He agreed to test for whooping cough and other potential infections. So, after the test, we were sent home and told the test results would be ready in about 2-3 days.

We got home from the ER at about 5am. Everyone crashed out, except for Momma, who just couldn't sleep and just wanted to hold little Damien. Later that day Damien started getting congested so we treated that with saline solution and steam, lots of rest and cuddling. Those two days were the LONGEST two days in Mommy's life - who stayed up every night because she couldn't sleep unless someone else was holding/watching Damien and because every little cough sent a little panic button off (since Mommy already tends to dwell on worst case scenarios). Thankfully, on the morning of the 3rd day the hospital called to say that all tests were negative - so, in the end, just a cold! Phew! That night, after having champagne with dinner to celebrate the good news, Momma and Papa went out for their first date night to check out a lighted wind turbine art exhibit by the river and to grab some drinks on a cool river boat barge bar.



Little D was quite the ham with the doctors and didn't seem to mind the examinations or understand what all the fuss was about. Mommy, on the other hand, was a hot mess.




Checking in to the Hospital in the middle of the night. We forgot our passports, whoops, but luckilly Mommy had her driver's license and a copy of Damien's birth certificate.




It's OK Mommy, I just have a cold, I will be OK.

Damien's Second Christmas in Lyon

One Christmas was not enough for little Damien. He got two Christmas celebrations. After Christmas in Paris, little D took the high speed train from Paris to Lyon in First Class (after waiting over an hour for the late train in the FREEZING train station). The day after his arrival in Lyon, little D was greeted by more cousins! This time Papa's cousins Benu and Maude and their respective children (Collen, Timothee, Lola and Zoe). The little cousins were excited to meet little D and he was quite intrigued as well. After the initial meet and greet, the little cousins began chanting presents, presents (in French of course) and so presents were exchanged. Afterwards, the marvelous Chef Maurice prepared us another gormet meal of chicken with crawfish, potato gratin, fried potatoes (for the lactose intollerant Momma) and chicken/roasted chestnut puree. After the big meal, the entire clan huddled around the TV to watch a hilarious French comedy that was gifted to Momma and Papa.







Grandma Colette introducing Damien to Mathias' little cousins.






My big American cousin is soo funny.




Cousin Maud with little D. She's expecting her third child (and barely shows it - little French babies!).




Zoe with little D.




Damien has now discovered how to put his hands in his mouth. He now spends a good deal of the day gnawing on his hands and trying to stick his whole hand in his mouth.




The Christmas loot!




Distributing presents.




Grandma Colette and Chef Maurice with the fabulous Christmas lunch.


Cuddling with cousins.

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Damien's First Christmas


Damien celebrated his very first Christmas in Paris, France with his French family - oh la la. Damien started off the day leisurely doing his eat, poop, play, sleep cycle at Lal's apartment. Around mid-day he got suited up in his trusty bear suit again (after which he pooped just to show everyone who was boss) and hitched a ride on Papa down to his great uncle Jean-Christian's place to meet up with the rest of the family. The pit stop at Jean-Christian's included a little refuel for Damien and Momma and Papa (who couldn't wait for the ever sliding lunch time). In case anyone forgot who was running the show, Damien pooped again as soon as we put his bear suit on to leave! That little guy.

After the pit stop, Damien tested the French public transportation system by taking the metro to a regional train that led to the nice suburbs of Paris. There Damien was welcomed into the home of his great Aunt Anne and met many of his second cousins. After yet another large multi-course meal we "did" Christmas around the tree opening presents while singing Christmas songs in English!! Damien was a present magnet and scored lots of nice presents from handmade dolls and clothing, to French lullabye book and CD. After posing for some family photos, it was time to brave the freezing cold and take the train and metro back to Lal's apartment where the entire Craig crew passed out from the day's activities.



Damien in his Christmas outfit.


Damien, the adorable little bear.


Momma and her baby bear.

Stopping for a little snack.

Checking out the streets of Paris


Taking the metro.


Taking the regional train.


Uncle G and cousins Lauren and Eudoxie.


Christmas Lunch with the family.



Taking a siesta on Papa.


Chillin after another big meal.

Playing with cousin Lauren


Colette and her boys!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Damien Does Paris

Damien hit the ground running in Paris. No time to ease into the 9 hour time difference or freezing cold, or what have you. No, Damien's dance card was booked up. First off the day after our afternoon arrival was a lunch at Damien's great uncle Jean-Christian's in Paris. Thankfully, Jean-Christian's place was a short 10 minute stroll from Lal's apartment. Damien got suited up in his super comfy and warm fleece bear suit and fleece blue hat and hitched a ride on Papa in the bjorn. After meeting everyone and having a snack, little D took a nice long nap so that the grownups could have a nice turkey, homemade foie gras, meat stuffing, vegetables and cheese lunch. It was quite a feast.

Shortly after dinner ended, the Craig's headed back to Lal's place to rest before heading out again for another meal! Unfortunately, Papa forgot to get the codes to Lal's building (Paris residences apparently only have codes instead of keys to get into the buildings). Oops. So, we had to buy a phone card and attempt to call Mathias' mom. Papa is quite proficient in French, however, he didn't know the French word for the pound sign, so we were unable to make a call until we got some assistance from a nice lad. Thank goodness.

After a short rest, it was time to head to Lal's parents house for a Christmas Eve celebration. After waiting a short while in the freezing cold in the taxi stand (you can only get cabs at taxi stands, there are not many cabs in Paris, and lots of them are Mercedes!), we had a short ride in a Mercedes taxi to our destination. Once there, Papa realized that he again did not have the door code. You can imagine that Damien and Momma were none to pleased as it was mighty cold! Oh how we missed our cell phones at that moment. Papa started shouting hoping they might hear us through the window several floors above. Luckily, Lal's dad happened to come home right before us and heard our cries as he headed in from the car (behind the locked outer gate)! Phew.

Once inside we had a nice late turkey dinner with lots of champagne and other treats. Damien got to meet his friend Niels (Lal's son) for the first time. Niels, who is 1 1/2, was happy to share the limelight with Damien and was quite intrigued with the little D. The funniest part of the evening was when, after seeing Damien drink his bottle, Neils ran into the kitchen to retrieve his much larger bottle as if saying, hey man, I got one too and mine is much bigger! While the age gap is quite meaningful right now, it is Papa's hope that Damien and Niels will be good friends and can trade summers like he and Lal did (Mathias would go to France every other summer to be with Lal and Lal would come to Oregon to be with Mathias every other summer). We shall see. Momma can't bear the thought of little D going away for a whole summer at this time - it will be interesting if she feels the same way ten years from now!


Hanging out with the boys at 2 am, Damien and Momma were happy to have some company at that hour!



Damien playing with his first toy, an interactive elephant that Grandma Linda gave him. He loves it and is just starting to be able to grab onto the rings.


All suited up and on our way to Jean-Christian's place.

Damien meets his great uncle Jean-Christian

Damien happily flirting with Grandma.



Heading home for a nap.


Getting ready for the next adventure.


Taking in all the guests at the Christmas Eve dinner.


Boys and men. Mathias and Lal with Damien and Niels all together for the first time.



Damien gets into the Christmas spirit.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Damien Flys Across the Atlantic with Lathias Craig



A little over a week after returning from Hawaii, little jet-setter Damien packed his bags again and headed back to the airport. This time, a trip to France to visit his French relatives for the holidays! It was questionable as to whether our flight would be canceled because of major snow storms in London, Paris and Frankfurt (our connecting city). The European airports were a hot mess because of being virtually shut down for days before our departure day. All flights to Frankfurt were canceled the day before our flight. Friends of ours got stuck in their connecting cities (some for days), so Damien packed a big duffle bag with all of his necessities to keep on the plane with him in case of getting stuck in Frankfurt for a few days (so much for traveling light).

Because of the weather issues and because when Momma booked the reservation over the phone (complicated miles ticket) they mispelled Mathias' name as Lathias, we arrived at the airport about 5 hours early to try and correct the ticket issue and have plenty of time to get checked in and through security leisurely. Well, of course once we arrived we were told that they couldn't change the name because doing so would require them to cancel the ticket and because so many people were trying to get to Frankfurt because of the days of cancelled flights, it would get picked up before they could reissue in the correct name. So, we had to take our chances with Mathias flying under the new alias Lathias.

So, after checking in we went to security and the agent checking the passport noticed the mispelling, told us to wait to the side in the line (with our many carry on bags - awkward) while he called a supervisor to assist. Once the supervisor finally arrived with several agents the took Mathias out of the line for lots of questioning. After realizing that the ticket could not betted down and attest to being himself. Phew! We were hoping we would have the same luck in our connection in Frankfurt and didn't think it likely they would turn us back to the US or keep us in Germany.

Finally it was time to board the plane. We were happy to take advantage of the early boarding for families with small children. Damien of course went to the bathroom right before boarding necessitating a full diaper and clothing change in one of the bathrooms on our way to our seats! We had reserved the bulk head row with a bassinet. We found ourselves sitting next to a family that was traveling back to Germany for the holidays with their 6 week old and their almost 2 year old who, not having napped that day, was a crying mess. Damien was a champ again on take-off, no crying! Little D was also mostly tranquil during the whole flight. A little fussy here and there and only one big hissy fit when he knocked momma's water out of the glass and all over himself and papa and needed a big diaper and outfit change. He did not, however, like his bassinet. Nope, not a fan one bit. He played in it for a little while once, and slept a little bit, but for the most part he would cry every time we put him in it. The plane was also hot hot hot, so we didn't want to put him in his green burrito (the fleece velcro swaddle blanket he sleeps in) so for one nap Papa leaned over and held his arms down so they would not wake him up. Momma, therefore, didn't sleep more than 45 minutes on the 10 hour flight, and was a little jealous of the 6 week old baby who slept in his bassinet almost the whole flight!

The plane was a little late, so we arrived in Frankfurt with less than an hour before our scheduled flight to Paris. That resulted in one of the most hectic connections ever. Luckilly passport control had no problems with Lathias. After that we ran through the enormous airport, with Mathias looking like a sherpa with all our bags (2 duffle bags, one backpack and one diaper bag/purse and a carseat), and Momma ran with little D asleep (thankfully) strapped into the Bjorn. Thankfully, when we reached security they again had no issues with Lathias and allowed us to go to the head of the business security line because of Little D. After that, more running! We made it to the gate with minutes to spare, only to realize that they were late and loading passengers onto a bus to take us to our plane on the tarmac at a different terminal (that we ran through!). Thankfully, our flight to Paris was only a little late and not fully booked so we were able to spread out. We arrived in Paris and all of our luggage made it (remarkable since many people that managed to make it to Paris in the weather mess did so without their luggage - we saw the roped off areas of thousands of pieces of luggage to prove it).

We were very fortunate to have Lathias' aunt Frederique waiting for us to take us to the apartment we were staying at (Mathias' good friend Lal let us stay at his apartment all by ourselves - a great luxury - THANKS LAL!!!). Our adventure did not stop at the airport, however, as it was snowing and that made the freeway a parking lot. All would have been well but Momma forgot to take care of her needs at the airport and needed a bathroom badly. Additionally, in the mad scramble to get ALL our luggage and the baby in the small car in the freezing cold, we left the cooler bag with all the bottles of breastmilk in the trunk. Damien was not pleased when he woke up starving. So, as soon as we could get off the freeway, we pulled over (more like stopped half in the street half in the sidewalk) so Papa could get the milk from the trunk and Momma could relieve herself in the public toilet on the sidewalk. After this little excitement, we finally made it to Lal's. The end you think. Oh, not so. Poor Papa (well he did it to himself so you can't really feel sorry for him) had a blueEnergy board meetingto attend so he quickly showered and changed and ran out the door. Momma (more tired at this point than she has ever been) and Damien, on the other hand, went straight to bed and thankfully stayed there most of the evening/night.

Whew! Did you get that?



Hanging out in his chariot.

The view from D's perspective - hello world, here I come.

A rare moment of calm in the bassinet on the plane.

The Craigs traveling light! (For the record the Ikea bag was all gifts).

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Damien Bundles Up!

With temperatures below freezing in France and snow, Momma bought little D some winter gear. On a chilly evening in Berkeley Momma decided to take the winter gear out for a test run. The cute and comical reaction from little D is below.


I am not amused.

Seriously Mom, do you think I am your ken doll?

OK, OK, I'll pretend that I like it so you will stop flashing that camera in my eyes.

I gave you my best smile, now will you take these ridiculous things off me?

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Damien's Pre-Christmas Visit With Great-Grandma Nelda

Shortly before heading off to France for the holidays, little D took another trip out to Sacramento to see Great-Grandmother Nelda for a little pre-Christmas brunch celebration. To get ready for the occassion, little D suited up in his Christmas get up (as Papa likes to call outfits) and took it for a test drive. Results - adorable. Nelda was super happy to see her littlest boy.

Great Christmas Photo!
Gotta love the matching red vests, it was not planned.

I'm not exactly sure about this outfit mom, does it mak me look fat?

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Damien's First Play Dates

Damien has been on several walks with his pals Maya and Lucas and their mommies, but this week he had his first "play dates" indoors. The first, with Lucas, was after a nice walk which went a little too long for Damien's comfort. So, Lucas invited Damien inside to have some milk, which Damien happily accepted. After his bottle (of Mommy's milk) Damien noticed Lucas for the first time sitting on the couch next to him on Lucas' mommy's lap. Man the look on Damien's face was priceless, he was like "what the heck is that!" After a good long stare, Damien was on to more important things, like taking care of business! It was a brief, but fun play date (at least the mommies found it hilarious).

Later in the week, little Maya and her mother Odessa came over for tea and cookies (which little D helped mommy make). Maya was showing off her napping skills (an area in which Damien is having some challenges). Damien was not impressed, however, and was more than happy to be the baby of the hour. Eventually, Damien got bored with Mommy and Odessa's conversations about work and childcare and other such things and finally fell asleep. But, not willing to let Maya have the last laugh, Damien was sure to wake up first (much to mommy's chagrin).

All bundled up for a walk outside of Lucas' house in North Berkeley.

Completely enjoying his play date with Maya.